How do I develop my child’s strengths and interests?

Below are several suggestions for getting started:

• Give directions that take into account whether your child is more of a visual, auditory, or kinesthetic learner. Recognize that what works for you may not work for her.
• You may find it useful to ask your child how she would like you to give her information about the family schedule, chores, etc.
• Talk to your child about strategies that work for her (particularly when there is a big test or project).
• Make yourself available and set aside regular times to touch base with your child.
• Notice and talk to your child when she appears worried or stressed out in school.
• Praise your child for things she does well.
• Praise your child for putting forth effort for more challenging tasks at home and at school.
• Advocate for your child and teach her to advocate for herself.
• Attend meetings and be in regular contact with teachers.
• Be aware of what assignments are coming up. Many schools now have online systems for doing this.
• Help your child select a school project based on her strengths (i.e., strong verbal skills – give an oral presentation, strong visual skills – create a poster, good written language skills – write a paper, or strong interpersonal skills – conduct an interview).
• Help your child select her research topic by brainstorming areas of interest.
• Facilitate extra-curricular activities and social opportunities that build on your child’s strengths and interests.
• Take your child to the library and help her select books or articles about topics of interest.
• Find out what kind of community events or service projects are available.
• Have your child teach or show you something he is good at or proud of.